http://hoping.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/adopting-great-it-s-a-surefire-way-to-ge Provides adoption information and guidance for people who are hoping to adopt a child domestically or internationally. Mon, 08 Mar 2010 23:42:47 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://hoping.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/adopting-great-it-s-a-surefire-way-to-ge/comment-page-1#comment-911 hopefulmom Sat, 22 Jul 2006 05:33:50 +0000 http://hoping-to-ad.www.adoptionblogs.com/2006/07/17/adopting-great-it-s-a-surefire-way-to-ge#comment-911 I totally understand, that drive me nuts! My husband and I tried for years on our own the found out we had to go to IVF and both times it did work but my first girl I lost at 19 weeks (I went into labor and delivered) and the 2nd we lost a boy and a girl twins at 15 weeks. Again I went into labor and delivered. Both times involved High risk and bedrest and for weeks before we lost them I was so so worried. We lost the twins a little over a year ago and I am just now starting to heal and look at babies (still cant stand preggers though). People constantly tell me oh watch you'll get pregnant now! I just want to scream every time. Once I even told someone "how would you like to hold three babies in your arms that have passed away, you want me to go for four!" even people who know we have had to do IVF keep pushing. I would like nothing more then to have been able to give birth to live healthy babies but I just cant. Sometimes I get tired of trying to educate people about fertility and adoption. AHHHHHHHH I totally understand, that drive me nuts! My husband and I tried for years on our own the found out we had to go to IVF and both times it did work but my first girl I lost at 19 weeks (I went into labor and delivered) and the 2nd we lost a boy and a girl twins at 15 weeks. Again I went into labor and delivered. Both times involved High risk and bedrest and for weeks before we lost them I was so so worried. We lost the twins a little over a year ago and I am just now starting to heal and look at babies (still cant stand preggers though). People constantly tell me oh watch you’ll get pregnant now! I just want to scream every time. Once I even told someone “how would you like to hold three babies in your arms that have passed away, you want me to go for four!” even people who know we have had to do IVF keep pushing. I would like nothing more then to have been able to give birth to live healthy babies but I just cant. Sometimes I get tired of trying to educate people about fertility and adoption. AHHHHHHHH

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